• By admin on June 18, 2008 @ 1:52 pm No Comments

    Becca seems to be falling behind her peers at school.

    In the past month, she has taken and failed two tests in English. Both tests were of the form match the letter on the left (A-D on the first test, E-H on the second, upper-case only) with pictures on the right (Apple, Cat, Bus, Elephant, etc). Got nearly all of them wrong. On the first test, she was one of only 3 in her class of 26 that failed. I did not ask about the second one.

    She can recite the ABC’s – sings the song constantly – and can recognize a few letters: A, B, H, X. But for most other letters, she is unable to reliably identify them. It appears like she is guessing or just jumping to draw lines, not looking at them, not thinking about the question.

    Another observation: When I ask her to look at a flash card or a wood block containing the letter, she looks at me, not at the letter. What’s going on?

    Don’t want to over-react; she’s only 3y9m, still plenty of time to get with the program. But her class is moving on into the middle of the alphabet and I don’t want her to settle into a mental/emotional rut where school is simply a place where she fails to meet expectations or where expectations will eventually not be made of her, with all the consequences that come with that.

    Probably going to sign her up for a little bit of extra-lessons at school. Perhaps a little more time with the teachers will help. Otherwise, just don’t know what to do.

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  • By admin on June 18, 2008 @ 1:42 pm No Comments

    Becca is great (3y9m), cute as all get out. Learning both Thai and English alphabets. Last week we were watching TV and I said in English “Wow, look at the jumping fish, sweetie.” She quickly corrected me and said, in Thai, “That not correct, Daddy. It’s a dolphin.” Amazing.

    Becca is finally learning to share. Unfortunately, her first application of this valuable lesson occurred last week when she got sick and then shared it with all of us. So last week was tough, she was home from school, we were all feeling ragged and run-down, etc. So far this week, we’re all doing better.

    She can be moody and a bit of a whiner. Got a long road ahead of us to break her of that, if that’s actually possible at all.

    Benjamin is doing well, too. Strong – dare I say headstrong? Climbs on everything and then stands like a proud mountain-climber at the summit. Smart as all hell, at least I think so. Sometimes, it seems like he’s communicating not like a child – he’s only 1y5m – but more like an adult who simply doesn’t know the language. When he feels I’m not paying enough attention to some specific request he seems to be making, he grabs my cheeks and rotates my face until I am looking dead into his eyes. He knows no fear, so he’s getting his fair share of bumps and scrapes. Emotionally bracing myself for a long childhood of Emergency Room visits.

    Annie and I are exhausted and I’m stressed out trying to feed everyone, but I guess that’s parenthood, eh?

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